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Poster Message:
As much as people talk about "finding their home" during the recruitment process, it really takes until long after bid day for new members to meet everyone and to feel truly at home and comfortable. Remember you are only talking to ~15 members out of 180. When I went through, I thought I didn't fit in or wouldn't have the sorority experience I had always dreamed of at the house I ended up at, but sticking with it and giving it a try was the best thing I have ever done. I honestly have never met anyone who regretted their decision to trust the process and give their house a real shot - no matter where they ended up.