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Agree

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I am in a "top house" but have friends in all of the other top houses and especially in Pi Phi, AXD and XO. (I don't really get a good vibe from the ADP girls but I don't know any really well). What I wish I would have know going in to rush was how much my house would pressure me to look a certain way, act a certain way, party with only certain frats, have only greek friends, etc.. It is all in the (sometimes fake) spirit of promoting the sorority but it is exhausting and causes so much drama, hurt feelings and shame. My friends in these other houses are still pretty and popular but have fun hanging out with their sisters, frats and friends without any drama or judgment. If I had to do it over again I would have chosen differently. Who ever posted this has the right idea! Good luck at rush!