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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />nerves about recruitment from a pnm<br /><br /> Poster Message:
Okay I know recruitment is 71 days away... I went to open houses, expo and the info sessions. I know you're suppose to "Trust the Process" and I know that is true. I think the open houses, expo and info sessions were very eye opening. I feel like they were all a mini first round of recruitment and I have a general idea of who I vibe with and who I do not. I just don't want this to cloud my opinions during recruitment. My biggest fear is that in my head I am like wow I just had this amazing convo with these girls and I felt like I really got along with them, but in back of my mind I am like what if they thought I was a total weirdo. I know I am being nervous for no reason. As someone on the other side, would you say that if you're a sister and you felt the convo went super natural and it was fun that it is a good sign for future PNMs who cannot tell if its fake or genuine? I am normally a great judge of character and have such a sense of confidence, but this whole experience has me a bundle of nerves. Recruitment is still so far away! Just any general advice for girls in sororities would be great and I know "Be yourself" lol.