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Poster Name:
cob - believe or not

Poster Message:
You can throw out the rules all you want, but according to a lot of people here, not every chapter actually follows them. You’re just hiding behind the rule book and assuming the person speaking up is bitter. Maybe instead of trying to tear someone down for sharing their experience, you could actually listen and be better about it. I’m over seeing people get shut down or bullied just because the ‘truth’ doesn’t fit in with what others want to hear. Nice try, but if you’re only gonna spit rules, that doesn’t solve anything. Maybe actually read some of the feedback and learn from it instead of hiding behind the 'official' version of things. You’re also assuming they rushed. Maybe they dodged a bullet by not getting involved in the first place, but that doesn’t mean their perspective isn’t valid. People can have issues with the process, even if they weren’t part of it. Everyone’s experience is different, and just because it doesn’t fit your narrative doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Honestly, just grow up.