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Mom, do better

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So you think that she was lead-on in an elaborate mean-girl scheme designed to get her hopes up and then dash them for the entertainment of all the sorority members? I mean, what were you expecting, that they tell her ahead of recruitment week that they aren't going to give her a bid? Sororities are not allowed to do that, nor are they allowed to promise a bid to anyone. Both are considered dirty rushing and strictly prohibited. She has to find out during recruitment week what the official decision of the sorority is, just like everybody else. Or maybe they shouldn't have been welcoming to her in the first place, because that was actually fake of them? Is that what you're going to tell her when she applies for internships and jobs, and the hiring managers are welcoming and nice to her and seem interested in getting to know her, but then they decide that although she's one of the better candidates, they have identified someone else who fits the position best, and because they can't hire everyone they like, she doesn't get the position. Are you going to tell her that their hiring system is rigged and that they were all fake to her? What actually happened is that a sorority she liked expressed interest in her and gave her a chance in their membership selection process by trying to get to know her ahead of time with rush dates and by commenting on her insta. Then the sorority ultimately decided that others were a better fit and released her so she could focus on other houses. It doesn't mean they hate her, it doesn't mean that some members there wouldn't still want to be friends with her. It doesn't mean anything other than that the chapter, as a whole voting entity, decided that other girls were a better fit. None of us always get our way; none of us are entitled to always get our way. Being resilient is harder to learn when your mom isn't helping.