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After being cut from a house I repeatedly received several oral bids from, I wanted to drop. It hurt so much. It makes you think you did something wrong or weren't good enough and that's the worst thing about it because it's so far from true. Or even worse you get a notion that you're too good for another house.....which isn't what the process should be about at all. I experienced all of those feelings and I was so wrong. After crying my eyes out and talking to my mom I stuck through—tbh it was better than going back and sitting alone in my dorm room. I'm now happier than I've ever been and I can't see myself anywhere else. I found women who appreciate and love me for everything I am and never expect me to be someone I'm not. Don't ever let a house make you feel like you have to change yourself or that you aren't good enough. Go in with an open mind and actively encourage and support everyone around you to do the same, and even if it doesn't feel like it at the time...it'll all work out exactly the way it's supposed to in the end!