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Poster Name:
RC

Poster Message:
the process can be trusted if you're relatively comfortable in the weird environment of FFR. If you're on the shy side or take a while to warm up, some houses that might love you could drop you because they can't take the risk that you're not a good fit. In that case COB is a good option. In general, trusting the process means trusting the members to be able to see who will fit in... and they know better than you do. A problem with the process is when the PNM isn't being herself. then the houses get the wrong impression and it's not a good fit. Be honest in how your present yourself and be honest with where you're really going to fit. Falling in love with certain houses is unrealistic for a large percentage of the PNM group.