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Nooooo!

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You are NOT stupid. You went with your heart and did what you thought was best for YOU by not accepting that bid. I don't know where you are from but as I am sure you realize by now some of these girls are raised/trained from a young age on rush and how to prepare for it. And I, like you, thought all I had to do was to buy cute clothes, have good hair and nails and be friendly. I never thought of myself as a sorority girl and never imagined I would be in the greek system. So, I wasn't gonna change into something I am not to be accepted by a group of girls I didn't know. It did work out for me, but as I hear stories like yours I realize how lucky I am that it did. I don't know the rules, but maybe you can find someone in Panhellenic to talk to about what happened and see if there is a way to spring rush. It can't hurt. I read you're a post and completely understood how you were feeling and how the advice you got may not have been the best for you. Try it, it can't hurt.