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ex-pnm

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />am i wrong to be raw about the way this went<br /><br /> Poster Message:
On pref day, I have 3 houses, 1 I loved (call that House A) and the other 2 I am not feeling (House B and C). When I go to House A I feel like they showed me maximum love, they said stuff like "I can't wait to see you wearing our letters". House B and C, I don't feel any connections there at all. So I go to fill out my Bid Card and I fell like I have a lot of pressure to completely fill it out, that suiciding is a really bad idea. So I fill all 3 houses in, in my mind it's not going to matter because House A will come through. Come Bid Day, House A disappears, I get bid from House B. My gamma chi is telling me go to House B, but I am not feeling them at all, and I am surrounded by 1000 screaming happy girls, and I just wish the ground would swallow me up. I decide to pass on House B, I am just not willing to spend all that time and money trying to force something that feels wrong from the start. So I take the walk of shame, good times. I am wondering: 1) Am I wrong to be unhappy with House A? I just don't see how they could have been any more aggressive towards making me think I was getting a bid, and at the very least they had to have known that I was at best a maybe. 2) Am i wrong to be unhappy towards the girls that said suiciding was bad? Obviously, I still would have no bid, but I would have been spared that scene on Bid Day, it's not going to make the highlight reel of my college years Or maybe I was just stupid and all of this is on me?