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Poster Name:
nice

Poster Message:
You did nothing wrong. It is a numbers game. While every house does have the same quota after pref, for all the earlier rounds each house has a different cap for how many they can invite back. Strong recruiting chapters that more pnm's want can fill their invitation list right off the bat, other chapters have to ask more back to get more back. As soon as a chapter fills their invitation list, the rest of their pnm's are released. Also, every single chapter has to decide their first invitation lists without meeting any pnm's in person, so GPA and chapter connections are very important, then resume and video, and plenty of pnm's never step foot in certain houses because of this. You are not the only 4.0 with a good resume who was released immediately from certain houses. After first round it's all about your conversations and hitting it off with chapter members. DG and PiPhi both loved you, but DG matched to quota before they got to you because you weren't quite high enough on their list, and you would have gone PiPhi but you didn't want them at all. I'm so sorry, I know it hurts. Make friends in the chapters and try for a COB at the houses you had in later rounds.