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Some might know you. Is everyone your mom knows on FB a stranger to you? It could be a neighbor you didn't know had a sorority affiliation, or someone from church or your mom's work who has known you since you were six. Even forgetting FB, would a rec from one of your high school teachers be pointless, or one from your part-time boss or former scout leader? Also, lots of alumnae won't send random recs. If they don't know a PNM personally, they might do one if someone they trust stands up for the girl because THEY know her, or they might do it if the girl meets with/talks with them, leading to them feeling comfortable endorsing her. But recs for girls they, or someone they trust, doesn't know? Many won't do it. Many check out social media, too, and if anything makes a girl look like a reputation risk, they won't put their name on a rec. Whether someone thinks they're pointless or not, many sororities require them as do some nationals. For this reason, the majority of PNMs put the time and effort into getting them. Also, many competitive schools use a National Panhellenic release system that requires each sorority to drop a certain number of girls after each round, and it's not easy in earlier rounds where hundreds have come through their house for 20 minutes and talked to two sisters. What makes for an easy cut? Lower GPA or not having recs. Really, it's not a good idea to try rushing without them.