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Poster Name:
lami

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />be yourself, pnms!<br /><br /> Poster Message:
It doesn't matter who you are or where you're from when you go through recruitment, please be yourself. Everybody will tell you to do this, but I didn't listen. I wanted to get in a top tier house and I played a part that wasn't myself so I could get a bid. I did and I played the part my entire freshman year. It was exhausting! I'm not the extrovert I pretended to be, I hate swaps, and I can't stand to watch The Bachelor/Bachelorette shows. I really screwed up and it is all because I wan't honest with myself about what I wanted in a sorority and now I'm either stuck or disaffiliate. I can honestly say that being part of a top tier house has not benefited me as an individual at all. Please don't make the same mistake I did, pnms. Be honest with yourself, don't pay attention to tiers, and go with your heart when you make your decision.