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will only know what you tell them. The only way anyone can know you don't have a full schedule is if you have extra sessions where you don't have a party. People still won't know where you are or are not going unless they see you there. They are all too busy worrying over their own invitation list to pay much attention to yours anyway. Keep your favorites to yourself, and don't listen to all of the talk among PNMs. You very well may pledge somewhere that isn't your first choice and you will probably love it in the long run, but why should others know it wasn't your first choice? This site is full of girls bashing houses who cut them even though they are totally happy where they ended up. That's what creates a lot of the drama on here and some of it starts with PNMs who have been cut somewhere they thought they wanted. As far as being cut without recs- some houses are required to cut huge numbers at the very beginning, so they may cut girls without a rec or with grade issues. Others don't have to do that. Every chapter does things a little differently and has different numbers to work with. Keep an open mind about the houses that invite you back- they are interested in you! Good Luck!