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Real talk

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I’m bumping this but I’m gonna be a little less positive than OP. This also applies to top and upper middle tier chapters. Just because they’re good at recruiting you doesn’t mean they’ll be your best friend on bid day or that they like all their sisters and the chapter is perfect and has no drama. I joined a top chapter because it honestly felt like home and every other chapter I just didn’t vibe with, but now I have my group of friends in the chapter and I don’t really interact with most of the rest. I’m happy now and I love my chapter and my friends, but I was definitely given unrealistic expectations and that made my new member process hard.