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whoa, hold on

Poster Message:
Honey, you are dead wrong about not relying on your friends, so let me try to explain. Rush is competitive and so many pnm's are just as pretty, accomplished, personable and social as the next, so personal connections are EVERYTHING. Any pre-existing relationships can make or break your rush. Please read that last sentence again. This is not a blind process that starts on the first day of rush. For the sororities, there is a fine line between who to keep for the next round and who to release, and so many awesome pnm's fall through the cracks just for numbers sake because they don't stand out from the other awesome pnm's in some way. Leverage any advantage you may have by letting your friends know you are interested in their sorority so they can speak for you and at least get you on their sorority's radar. Your friends can't read your mind, you have to tell them, and if you don't say it to them they will assume you are not enthusiastic about their house. Hopefully your friends will make sure not to be the ones rushing you so you can meet as many other members as you can. Membership selection is a chapter decision and you do need as many advocates as possible to get to pref. If you aren't a good fit it won't happen, but at least give yourself your best chance.