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Poster Name:
okay

Poster Message:
plenty of sweet girls join. I know a few of them. The problem is the sorority culture itself makes one’s social capital correlated to the number of date functions you get an invite to— rather than how fun or funny a person is. Their Instagram only posts hot sisters, so if you get posted on the Insta it’s a “big deal”. Girls literally have Quotas to attend frat parties and if they don’t go they get fined. This is a nationals thing. So you can be the sweetest girl, but joining a sorority that puts so much pressure because of the above, can change anyone. Or at least alter priorities. I just don’t want people to think an aphi=mean girl because that is not true. I think aphi as a sorority culturally promotes toxic behavior, making the quiet sweet girls there a lot more “quiet.” They are still there- just no one talks about it.