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If it’s the wrong fit then don’t force it. If you Think it’s better to finish pledging and get initiated and then determine your engagement then, you can do that too. I think the latter option is probably better especially if you’re pledging somewhere with a tough process - worst case you don’t need to be that engaged and can just go to parties and date functions and invite your other friends. I have friends in houses who are barely engaged; obviously it’s not what the brotherhood wants or is ideal but if that’s what works for you it’s your life. I’d stick with it though - you don’t know how you’ll feel a year later and you can always drop later if you really don’t like it.