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Empathy

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Awww hang in there. I’m still in hs but my mom went to uva before they had the rule where you are guaranteed a bid if you 100% complete rush. She preffed her two favorites (sophomore year) and was excited about both but got a bid to neither on bid day. All her housemates went off to their sororitys and she was bummed and alone much of the rest of the spring. She did have to find new housing and some non sorority friends. I won’t lie - it sounds awful and she really doubted her looks and social skills. But hey she made it through and is here today to warn me that getting ranked by your peers can sting. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Not sure I will do it! FWIW she thinks it’s hard to stand out to sororities unless you come from wealth, have prior connections, are a varsity athlete or are just very pretty. But hey - that leaves a ton of cute nice fun regular girls around campus — go find them!