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Poster Name:
lost

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />considering dropping my sorority<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I rushed last year and joined one of the upper sororities. I’m from out of state so I did not know anyone in my sorority going in but from the first day I could tell there was a major cliche of girls who had all already been friends and roommates going into my pledge class. I make an effort to reach out to hang with some of the other girls and am often politely told “sorry I have plans” or replied to hours later after the event has happened. The girls I have managed to become friends with are super sweet but do not go out often and I was hoping to make those types of friends by joining a sorority. I often dread going to chapter or sorority meetings as I don’t know who to talk to or sit with. I hoped that when I got my big this would be easier but my big and I have not become that close and she often hangs with her friends outside the sorority. Going into rush I had hoped to live in the house my third year but now I’m considering dropping before I even get to that point as I feel invisible in sorority. I’ve attended every event but it feels like the major clique of girls is uninterested in expanding their group. Any advice? Should I keep trying or quit before I get too hurt?