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Poster Name:
cob

Poster Message:
I rushed (and dropped!) twice before getting a COB (continuous open bid) from my chapter. It sucked. It honestly is a really arbitrary system and depends almost entirely on who you talk to during the first couple rounds and how well you vibe. It is so hard for PNMs as well as sorority women to decide which people they'd like to see again after talking for just a few minutes. My biggest advice is try to be confident and open with whoever you're talking to! You don't have to be the most interesting person on the planet, but being engaged and trying to at least hold an interesting conversation will make you memorable and they'll want to hear more.