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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />trust the process?<br /><br /> Poster Message:
i trusted the process. i was so excited for every single house and was so ready to meet everyone. i put my all into these conversations with these girls, clean socials, great resume, etc etc but i was left with one house for sisterhood and pref. my rho gams assured me that i was just unlucky. i kept putting my everything into that one house i had left. that house was so rude, dismissive, shallow, and fake to me in every single conversation during rush that i couldn’t believe they kept inviting me back every day. i was in tears after every party of theirs i attended. but i kept going. i trusted it would work out and kept putting my everything into these conversations. i was crying for hours after pref when i decided not to sign the mraba. my conversations in that house made me feel so worthless that i couldn’t see any way it would work. i trusted the process. and now that i see how disorganized panhel seems, how slim the chances for COB this year look, i feel so betrayed by that little motto.