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Poster Name:
Amanda

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It's relatively common. However if you're a new baby I would find out when your sorority requires you to start paying dues and stick it out till then, to see. You might change your mind or you might still leave. It's literally been less than a week. Sorority sisters are human beings. Not some strange sci fi cult where you're going to be of one mind instantly or something. You're not automatically going to make a billion new friends. You still have to put in the effort to get to know your sisters. I felt kinda awkward my first few weeks too. Your chapter has a new member educator who can tell you when dues start and who you can talk to about feeling like you're not fitting in. If you're not feeling it still when dues start, drop. Nothing lost and recruitment was still probably a cool (if exhausting) experience.