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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />advice on not clicking with my sorority<br /><br /> Poster Message:
i tried greek life for a semester, but i just don't click at all with my sorority. everyone in my PC has their group and friends and purposefully leave me out. i feel extremely upset and disappointed with my sorority and constantly think about how i would've been so much happier in a different sorority. i feel like mine doesn't have much to offer for me, a group of girls tried to get me kicked out by lying and purposefully telling me the wrong information so i'd mess up, and i genuinely feel i would just be so much happier in a different one. i'm definitely in way too deep as i got initiated and didn't want to because i had so many reserves about my sorority but still went through with it because i still want to be involved in greek life, but just not the one i'm in. i don't know if it's just something to do with me, or if this is normal. should i just drop at this point since i can't be in any other sorority? is it even possible to secretly transfer from one to another despite already being initiated? it just sucks you can't join another one after taking a bid from fall formal until next recruitment and that you can't switch if it's just not working out. i tried everything i could think of to get to know girls in my house, but instead they just give me dirty looks, talk bad about me, and purposefully try to sabotage me. i tried sticking it out and giving it the benefit of the doubt, but it's just so expensive for people to treat me this way. what can i do about it?