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I recently rushed a sorority but I haven't been initiated yet. I don't think this is the house for me anymore and I was wondering what I should do. Should I stick with it or what would happen if I decide to drop out and rush somewhere else? Is that allowed? The reason I want to drop out is that I found out after I joined the house has been having some problems with recruitment in the past and I was expecting to meet a lot of people but the chapter is smaller than I expected. That didn't really bother me but we never have events to bond or get to know any of the sisters except the same 10 people I see during meals. I don't feel comfortable coming to the house and I don't see a lot of sisterhoods as well. Sometimes I get a sense that people don't like each other and I've heard gossiping around which made me feel out of place. I'm scared to tell the officers about this especially because I'm not sure what I should do yet, I really like the people in my pledge class but i feel disconnected to the older people.