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Poster Name:
mar

Poster Message:
I hear you on the financial issues as they are real. But as a senior I can tell you that how I felt about my house evolved over 4 years. In many respects I've learned so much being part of a house organization over the years. The things I've seen and learned are things I never would learn in class and there were certainly ups and downs over the years. Finding your way in a large group of people takes time, compromise and a fair amount of patience. No family/house is perfect! I'm not sure how involved you are in your house but for me at least it made a huge difference to seek out leadership roles and volunteer opportunities. These large pledge classes are making the house dynamics challenging so its not as easy to get to know everyone as it once was which is unfortunately. If you cannot find a place for yourself in your house then by all means drop but I would encourage you to try your very best to make a sincere effort to keep an open mind and try to find a path forward that works for you. If you have a solid group of 6 friends in your pledge class then that is great as in the end its your class that pulls you through the ups and downs. Best of luck!