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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />dropping and re-rushing fall 2018?<br /><br /> Poster Message:
Long story short I don't feel welcome in my chapter, which will remain unnamed. I have made around 4-6 friends in my pledge class and the same amount with current members, including my big. But the rest of the members aren't very friendly at all. I'll be with my friends and say hi and they'll ignore me, or I'll get dirty looks during chapter. I am not the only one in my pledge class who feels this way. I dread going to chapter meetings and seeing these people. I just hate knowing my parents are spending so much for me to be in a house where I don't feel welcome. I don't know whether I should drop and re-rush. Am I just demanding perfection? Obviously I know I won't be best of friends with everyone, but I'd at least enjoy to be cordial with the majority of my house. Has anyone dropped and re-rushed? Part of me would feel bad bc I have made some really great friends, but part of me also feels uneasy in my current situation. Will houses take me next fall as a junior who dropped and re-rushed? Should I just stick it out? Honestly any advice is helpful, and at this point I just want a solid group of people and don't care about a houses ranking.