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nic

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It looks like things got handled the way they usually do in the end in our sorry system by doing the 'easy' and 'same old same old' and poor pnms joined a house where the national will just continue to tell them what they should believe and what they should not believe. Another NPC used a big stick in the form of its rules/regs to yet again treat sisters and pledges in a way that was frankly neither nice nor kind. Apologists hide behind words such as 'tact' and 'polite' and say such things as the NPC did what was 'right' rather than 'what was popular'. I'm not sure when not being honest falls in the category of 'right' and when not telling the truth is 'tactful' and 'polite'. There was a time during this week when people could have stood for being kind and humane and caring as it related to the pnms and sadly not one person in this system took that opportunity. Instead we have people standing behind rules/regs that oftentimes make it easy to NOT do the right and kind thing. A large group of us wish the new pledges well as they will certainly need all the help they can get when dealing with an out of touch national that doesn't seem to recognize the dignity inherent in every individual. To the sisters of xo our sincere condolences on what must be a pathetic and dysfunctional relationship with a national that is out of touch with mainstream humanity. I for one hope the national doesn't close your chapter down, but seeing how they have conducted themselves I won't be surprised if they do and then give you two weeks to find housing as that sadly seems to be the kind of values as an organization that xo national represents. Yep, business as usual for xo national and our sorry panhel. Shameful.