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Poster Name:
bear

Poster Message:
Think of it like dating. You might go out with a guy, have a good time, good conversation, and he might be feeling like you're "the one", but that doesn't meant that you are feeling it and it doesn't mean that you are required to continue dating him. The houses know what they are looking for, and many times we may like a girl individually but down vote her because we know she would not gel with the house completely and that wouldn't be fair to the sisterhood or to her. Rejection is absolutely part of the process and houses should never be forced to take someone in that they aren't absolutely sure of, just as you should not be forced to date someone you aren't totally crazy about. It's tough, but rejection is a life lesson that you will face in many different forms. If everybody could get into their top house there would be no point for recruitment.