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Poster Name:
meg

Poster Message:
@yep. I hear what you are saying but most houses are fairly diverse so I'm not sure there is a 'cookie cutter' for every house. I know for us that social skills are important, first impression is important and ability to carry on a conversation is important. I know for us we don't want everyone to be the same but people do need to have something in common. I know this sounds like a bad fortune cookie fortune but its true! The process is more art than science for sure. It sounds strange to say this but from a PNMs perspective put yourself out there as someone that the house would want as a sister. I am not talking to be someone you are not but your best 'you'. No fake please as I saw a ton of that already and it gets real old real fast and is totally spotable. Don't do it, PLEASE.