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You'll do great!

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Remember that you are amazing, beautiful, smart, kind, and a wonderful human being. No matter what happens, do not let the opinion of other people who barely know you affect your self-confidence or self-esteem! Don't let anyone hurt your heart! Go into recruitment with the mindset that you're going to meet a bunch of girls and if you like some of them and they like you, you'll join a sorority. If not, then maybe this wasn't the time and place for you to make new friends. Cal has literally hundreds of clubs and activities where you can meet people, but you have to take the initiative and check them out. Sororities are great, but they're not going to make or break you or your life. Try to keep your perspective -- in ten years, or even five, the house you pledge is not going to matter. In figuring out where you fit best, think about the type of person you are. In high school, were you an athlete, artist, cheerleader, partier, fashionista, debater, bookworm, loyal friend, extravert, introvert, or ??? Each house has a mix of people, but some lean more one way than another. Look for a place where you can be you! Keep your mind open and realize everyone is doing the best they can. The system is not perfect but seems to work most of the time. Go to all the parties you can, try to ignore every one else's opinions (especially the ones on here), and have fun. You'll do great!