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Poster Name:
liz

Poster Message:
Oh, with age comes wisdom I truly don't know sometimes where to even begin to respond to your postings. Tonight though I think I will respond to your theory that the reason so many PNMs experienced rudeness, feeling uncomfortable or otherwise dismissed is because the sisters they were speaking with were doing recruitment for the first time and were themselves nervous etc. I am not sure you are actually serious or just playing with us? How about houses take responsibility for how PNMs coming through their houses are treated? If a sister cannot or will not be civil then she should not be at an event. If the issue is pervasive at the house then have training sessions on how to treat people so they don't feel dismissed, disinterested or invisible as were all widely reported last fall. I don't know why Cal can't do what other schools do which is to have feedback cards to each house visited so these issues can be identified and dealt with in a timely fashion. Nobody should encounter rudeness or be dismissed but those sentiments were shared about 2 houses in particular on an almost daily basis this fall. Did these houses heed the informal feedback? Nope, they just denied it and chalked it up to sour grapes. The treatment of PNMs by any single house reflects on the ENTIRE system and this fall I thought we had too many issues on this front to say that its not an issue. Houses need to take RESPONSIBILITY for how they treat each other and PNMs. The entire situation is pathetic