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The replies here are great, I’ll add a few things that may be practical during actual rush to be aware of - some rooms are just very loud, and it’s hard to hear. Be ready for that. It can be a little uncomfortable, but just do your best - remember you are speaking with 2-4 people per sorority per round out of 200. If you don’t click with one, doesn’t necessarily mean you won’t be happy in that sorority. I love all my sisters, and I support them, but it’s not possible to be close friends with all 200 people and vibe with all of them - see above . People act like bid day is this magical thing where you automatically get 200 besties and that’s setting you up for failure. You still have to show up, smile, be friendly, come to things and meet people once you’re in. What you get is 200 people that will have your back and are hoping to get to know you, but it’s not a bunch of automatic friendships. - like someone said above, dont forget to eat and don’t let rush consume you! Obsessing over it every minute of the week won’t make bid day come any sooner, and it might make you more nervous and less conversational during rounds - don’t fake it. There’s plenty of shy girls in all sororities, you don’t need to fake a different personality to get in, everyone rushing you is just people, and you’re just having a conversation - ignore anything negative a boy says to you unless he really seems to have your interest at heart. Most guys want their girl friends to join what they consider “top” sororities so they can brag about having a friend in that sorority or beg you to mix with them. It’s weird. Every sorority girl can party with every frat and get in free to every club, they know that and they hate it - be friendly with your rush group and other PNMs, some of them will become your sisters! Don’t be super laser focused on what happens in the suites and ignore everything outside of them