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Honestly that’s good advice but there’s plenty we could say, this ain’t the best outlet for it but hopefully this will help someone. Actual invites back are hard to control truth be told, a lot is random but the most important thing is just having a positive experience and letting the chips fall so -eat food, drink water, try to get decent sleep, workout, watch tv, do whatever you do. Rush is a few hours or many some days, but try not to let it consume your thoughts all week and mess with your mental health. You’ll be miserable if you try not to eat, and you won’t perform your best. Show up, do the thing, go home and repeat - don’t be an ass, word gets around. Before zoom rush, people every year that we’re insecure and had crappy personalities screamed the loudest about which sororities they hated, how embarrassing someone else’s outfit was, etc. they usually get dropped everywhere. No one wants to be around that person, and no one wants to walk out of a party in love with a group and hear some little brat talking crap about it - I know they tell y’all to open up or whatever,, but there’s a fine line between that and trauma dumping. Try to gauge it the best you can but if a girl I just mer unloads her whole life story on me I’d be super uncomfy - think about what you want, don’t let being nervous stop you from taking in the vibe in a suite and considering your values and whether a sorority is a good fit. It’s our decision who to invite back, but it’s your decision too - don’t worry about drops, they happen to everyone and I promise you so many are so random - everyone says this, but go with your gut and keep an open mind. You don’t have to join the same sorority as your friends, and no one worth anything in this schools cares about “ranks” they only exist online and among tryhards in the freshmen dorms. Enough parties are open to keep you out every night of the week, and whatever people say every sorority has a social life. Everything works out in the end, and if it doesn’t the worst case scenario is you live in the funnest city in America at a school where you don’t need to be green to have a good time