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Poster Name:
Soft

Poster Message:
Dude. Every pledgeship will start like this. I don't care what chapter we're talking about. In 4-5 weeks you will be tighter with these guys than your high school bros. Fundamentally a pledgeship is taking a group of different guys, a lot of them who don't know each other that well, and building a brotherhood that will have each other's backs from that starting point. That other frat you were considering. If they run anything like a respectable process you'd be in the exact same position right now. Every dude feels kind of this way at the start. Unless the other chapter is way higher ranked and has promised you a guaranteed fall bid you're wasting your time to drop now.