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did you end up with no sororities inviting you back or did you decide to drop? if it is the first one then i believe sororities that choose to do informal recruitment can reach out to you to invite you back. if it was your choice to drop then you'll have to wait for next year. as for your second question, i'll phrase it this way... there are ppl who are disappointed every year. each sorority can only take so many girls. it's probably not that your sororitys where you had good convos didn't like you. it's just that they liked over 100 other girls better than you. it's cool if you like that sorority still and want to try next year. but i will stick up for the rho gammas and panhell and say that they aren't lying when they say "you'll end up where you're supposed to." if you go through rush, you'll end up where girls are excited to be friends w you and hang out. formal rush i think does a terrible job of showing pnms what day to day goes on in a sorority in terms of hanging out with your sisters. its not all glitz and glamour and cool outfits and insta-worthy videos all the time. most of it is having more ppl to say hi to on the way to class, hanging in the suite (which looks way less impressive and more home-y when there aren't a bajillion girls crammed into it), getting ready for parties together, snapchats, and discovering more ppl that have similarities with you bc of your new sorority. if you are going for a top tier and you won't feel like you're getting your money's worth unless you get in i'm not gonna bash you for feeling that way. you're definitely not alone in that sentiment and that's okay. but that's not what panhell is guaranteeing so if that's what pnms are expecting then ofc they will feel like the system failed them. if you're actually looking for ppl that like you and a place to fit in then i think you should cut greek life some slack. every sorority has its merits and there are really cool, attractive girls in every sorority. recruitment can't even begin to show you that though so sometimes even though it sucks to get "rejected" (i.e., not liked enough) by the sorority you wanted, you need to give wherever you end up a chance. good luck in the future, whether you decide to informal, formal, or no more recruitment at all
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