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Poster Name:
not talking

Poster Message:
The sororities do not get together and compare notes before they vote after each round. If something noteworthy happens with a pnm, members do talk to each other informally through friend groups when they go home at night. If there's something really bad about a pnm, panhellenic would be alerted, like for intentional rudeness or other very inappropriate behavior. What you are describing is not anything to raise a red flag like that, but if you did that at one house you probably did stuff at other houses and they each drew their own conclusions. Calm down, make friends in the sororities, go through rush again in the fall, and accept that the 'less competitive ones' are also exceptional and offer great sisterhoods.