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it happens sometimes

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I'm very sorry you didn't find your people in a sorority. It does happen every year, and can happen in any given house, but it is by far the exception. PNM's don't need to have expectations that every sister will love them and they will love every sister and they will have a couple hundred best friends in a love fest. No. Anyone who can get a handful of really close friends that they absolutely love, and I mean a handful like 5 or so, then their sorority or fraternity experience is successful. Most of your sisters/brothers you will be just fine with but not exceptionally close to. A few you will love and they will love you and it's the best thing ever. And then there will be a few that you absolutely cannot stand and cannot stand you and will be downright embarrassed you are in the same house as them. It's a classic bell curve representation. I have had a lot of positive experiences in my house but not everything was perfect but that's how we grow and learn. Overall it has been the best thing that every happened to me so far and most of my house says the same. Four former sisters, from different NM classes, would say the opposite.