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Dear Mom

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I understand you being hurt and angry because of this, but I hope your daughter wasn't advised to drop out of recruitment because her favorite released her. If everyone did that, sororities would be a thing of the past. The only way to make it through these majorly competitive SEC recruitments is to keep an open mind. SO many girls lose their top choice, and it HURTS, but the ones who are successful in the end are the ones who keep going and find new favorites. You've got to look at every day of rush with fresh eyes. PNMs willing to do that, and open their hearts and minds to others, will likely find things they love about them. SEC recruitment is tough for most, and the road to that one bid is a process of highs and lows, but most will say it's worth it. And really, if someone looks at all the other Auburn sororities, filled with so many women, and doesn't think she could be sisters with ANY of them, well the problem isn't the sororities, ya know? I'm sure your daughter is a great and beautiful girl, and I'll bet Phi Mu thinks so, too. Sororities know they miss out on amazing girls, but it's impossible to keep everyone they wish they could. The system and dynamics don't let them. I'm really hoping your daughter didn't drop because, unfortunately, it's much harder as a sophomore. The best opportunity at Auburn is as an incoming freshman in fall recruitment. If she's still in there and going to pref, encourage her to look hard at the sororities looking hard at her.