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It's getting close

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to rush as you can see. When you see any lists being posted, you can be sure it is just those trying to look like their group is in the "top" level and that their sisterhood is the best. It's just that time of the year. In reality, many of the girls in sororities have great friends in many of the groups besides their own, or maybe they are not in a sorority at all and they are still friends with those in a sorority. Why? Because these cliques you talk about are not really that strong any more. Surprise! Friends can now have friends outside their own groups! My bf is not in a sorority and she is accepted by all my 'sisters.' There's plenty of girls not in sororities and they date guys in fraternities AND lots of sorority girls date guys NOT in a fraternity. Not everyone tries to act like 2013 is how they see the Greek system portrayed in the movies. Pledging can be great...but you can still have a lot of fun with friends not in your group or those who didn't pledge anything. It's called maturity for those who have reached that...level. I see pledging as a benefit since I have had a fantastic time so far, but there are just as many who are not in a sorority and are just as happy not involved in the Greek scene. (Same at many colleges now.) If you have trouble making friends anyway, just pledging something will probably not solve that problem since you have to make an effort to be friendly in any scenario...pledging or not. Good luck !