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The way you get actives to stand up for you is to make an impression during recruitment. You can't start making connections at this point. #1 any active who would meet up with you could be accused of dirty rushing and it would risk taking her and her whole house down. #2 even if it could happen she would not get to know you well enough to stand for you. Besides, one person in a chapter is not enough to help; it takes multiple actives to keep a pnm and that one active needs to have some pull and influence/respect in the chapter for people to trust her judgement and go along with her opinion. mAt this point, if you know someone who knows someone who knows someone then that's a start, but just contacting out of the blue would see to be outside the rules and not make a good impression.