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As an active I feel like looks definitely matter, but not in the way that you would think. When girls are rushing PNMs they are looking for girls that seem like they would fit in best with the chapter. That being said, we are looking for girls who are the most like us in most categories. When I'm rushing a PNM, it isn't like it's a conscious thought, however, the girls in my chapter do have a certain "look" and when I see PNMs who have that same "look", it makes me notice them more. As a side note, I feel like PNMs should know that if you feel like you're having a great conversation and it goes well but then you get dropped, remember that these girls spend A LOT of time with their sisters and know the vibe of the house. There are so many times when I genuinely enjoy talking to a girl and think she's really cool, but I just see her as more of a friend than a sister. The same should go on PNMs sides - liking a house and thinking the girls are fun and sweet is one thing, but picture in your head if they're the girls who you would be comfortable with at your side when you look your worst, are sick, are in a rough situation, etc. That is the difference between friends and sisters.