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your 3 items, discussed

Poster Message:
If you can't afford the cost of belonging to a sorority, don't attempt to join. If uninterrupted study toward better grades is important to you and your courses require extra labs/big study workloads, you may do better pursuing sorority life during second year after things settle and you are more aware of personal time constraints. Individual sororities may absolutely require participation and attendance toward initiation and as a part of their active membership status. If you do not want to be 'forced' into sorority activities, don't join. It is perfectly okay to attend formal recruitment and end up not signing a bid card. That situation does not take away any bid from another woman, as quota is set based (among other things) on the number of pref attendees who DO sign a bid card. It's when women 'on the fence' (as you state you are) sign a bid card then refuse to accept a bid can end up taking a spot someone else would have preferred. PNMs really need to have their sorority decisions finalized by the time they sign/don't sign a pref card. After they sign, their refusal of bid acceptance will have taken a spot from another pnm desiring that specific home. It is also unkind to reluctantly sign a bid card, accept a bid, then quit the sorority within a very short time frame. Any pnm THAT unsure of her sorority choices ought to 'decline to bid sign' and re-rush at a later date. You join a sorority for life, not just for when you feel like being a member. You are always wearing your letters.