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Poster Name:
Concerned Rushee

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />need input on rushing<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I know I'm not too smart or athletic and just sociable, but I'm just trying to find a fraternity where I can just hang out with people I can call my brothers and people that could become my family away from home. I'm confident enough to be accepted by one but I just don't know how rush and bid processes work despite this being my second time rushing. I feel as though I'm not the typical guy who would fit the "frat guy" type of guy, but I feel as though a lot of my friends who are in Greeks appear to fit that stereotype. However, I just want to join a fraternity because I've always wanted to join one since I've applied to UCI and heard about it in high school. I'm fine with drinking and smoking, and having alot of socializing with brothers and exchanges with sorority sisters, but I feel like that shouldn't be everything a fraternity is about, rather, I just want to be accepted and be part of a brotherhood where I get someone's back and they get mine's and something like a bond that will not only last 4 years but will last beyond college.