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Poster Name:
pledge life

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />getting closer to your sisters<br /><br /> Poster Message:
Everyone says that new members should reach out and get to know the sisters, but I feel like the actives already have their favorites and spend all their time competing for littles. I really appreciate the actives being nice to pledges, but we can all notice when you spend the entire night kissing up to a girl just because she's the "hot" one by conventional standards. It's awkward when we see you single out a girl. Hanging out with a new member one on one is one thing, but focusing only on her and kinda ignoring the other pledges while in a group setting is a bit too much. I, as well as my pledge sisters, go to lots of events and try to bond, but this is a new experience for us and we don't know what we're doing. I get that it varies year to year, but we depend on the actives and our pledge mom to help with the intimidation of a new member period. Even with the weekly sister program, a lot of my pledge sisters, and even my friends who are in other chapters, are feeling like we're not welcomed. I've been hearing that people weren't happy with the turn out for recruitment this year and complained that the pledge classes suck so they're not worth getting excited for. Seriously?