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Thank you. I feel for these girls, but the demands of their mothers are insane. Two more houses are being established to accommodate more numbers. These are SOCIAL organizations primarily. We rush based on who we get along with and can see ourselves bonding with, and that encompasses being ambitiously involved, well put together and cute, and mostly a good conversation and personality through their social media or connectictions. Referrals mean nothing to us in practice, sorry. A family friend in a different chapter does not mean that we are going to hit it off, so it doesn't affect my opinion. We cut gorgeous girls who seem standoffish, and charming girls who wear too much makeup. It's not purely superficial, but it's a quick and massive round of decisions, every time. The process is hard but nobody is intentionally "brutalizing" random girls, we're choosing girls we can see as sisters, and she's not one. Pi chi's put an immense amount of effort into the emotional well-being of the girls. You may think the conversations went well, and that's because we want everyone to feel that way. We work hard to be smooth, fluid, and super respectful of every girl coming through, even if we don't invite them back, and that's the way it should be. We want to be sweet and kind because we know the process is hard, but we don't owe anyone a bid. And if you didn't click at a house, weren't you still nice to them? And then to brutally withdraw, what a terrible process you put them through!