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So, that's basically the point. Houses get called top because they are perpetuated by superficial criteria...and over time, this creates a demand for the house that makes them most desired by PNM's because they don't know what the criteria is. So they think that if they don't get a "top" house, they will have a terrible experience. But this is NOT true! Just because a house is not "top" doesn't mean there aren't the same girls, just maybe not as actively promoting their house on IG or Tik Tok or maybe their priorities are different and don't feel that going to the most frat parties is important or being fashionable is a priority...so they don't get seen as a top sorority. But a lot of the so called lower houses have higher retention rates or have better sisterhood, but that is not a criteria that gets seen by outsiders or as glamorous. The point being, if you just use the tiers and not follow your heart and really get to know the girls rather than the "title", you won't find your true sisterhood. You have to ignore the "tiers" in your decision. You may find that you love the girls in a "top" house and that's great, as long as your decision is based on your heart not because somebody outside made you feel you had to.