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It is overwhelming and some adjust faster than others. You can't expect to fit in right away and be besties with everyone. If you have a defeatist attitude you aren't going make friends. It can be expensive and if you don't have the support of your parents and your already on the fence, it has to compound all the feelings your having. Instead of thinking you have to make friends with everyone, try to focus on one or two pledges and one or two actives. You sound a little social challenged, look for girls who are similar to you, make yourself find a go to person. Once you find someone who you can conncect with, then like the above post suggested go to the house with them have lunch study or just hang out. . And talk to the treasurer maybe sure can give you some more time before you have to pay. The more involved you are the more you'll make connections with the girls and bond. So make yourself shake the negative vibes, (maybe that's another reason why you're not connecting others can sense it) and give it a week or two of extra effort. good luck