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Pretty soon I will have to pay to be in the sorority I got a bid from and while that was never an issue I am unsure if this is a right fit for me. I don't want to pay to continue trying it out when I haven't hung out with any of these girls outside of sorority events. It's not like they're unwelcoming and expect to form bonds with them right away, but I just don't see them making an effort and being new and not knowing many girls it's hard for me to make an effort because I don't want to come across as someone trying to hard but I don't see this working. I mainly did this to make knew friends and I don't know a lot about ANY of the girls and when we have events to get to know each other better I was left out because all the initiated girls went to talk to other initiated members and I was just left to talk to another new member so it was fine but I thought the whole point was to get to know them better. I just already feel left out and maybe I am to blame because I couldn't keep conversations going with the girls, but if I can't do that then how are we supposed to be 'sisters'. My friend got into another sorority and she already seems to have great relationships with all of the girls so I'm basing my situation a little bit off hers. But I don't want to pay and keep trying this and only to feel left out. I don't know how to make an effort. Does/did anyone else feel this way or is it just me? I don't want to come off as complaining, I really think it's just me.