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Poster Name:
Being real

Poster Message:
if you didn’t feel an instant connection with a house or two after a few rounds of recruitment, that’s fine. Recruitment is awkward and hard for everyone involved, including actives. But you only get to talk to maybe 10 actives for a total of 2 hours throughout the process. There are over a hundred girls in these chapters, there’s no way to say you wouldn’t have found close friends in any of the 90+ other girls you didn’t get to talk to! Or after getting to know the girls you did talk to a little better! Maybe they thought you were awkward and were reflecting your energy. Hell, I’ve had awkward conversations with girls in my own chapter outside of recruitment because that’s part of the human experience. And for what it’s worth, just stating you’re a legacy when you register for recruitment isn’t enough. Your mom/sister/aunt/grandmother/step-mother/whomever has to do it herself directly to her sorority’s HQ. irrelevant now, but if a future PNM sees this I hope she knows.