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The truth

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You’re not letting anyone down by not being in a sorority. It’s not for everyone. Only join if you actually feel like being part of the sisterhood, not because you feel obligated to your family. That could have come across in your conversations and potentially hurt you. If you’re a legacy to any of the chapters on campus, you should definitely have made that clear to those chapters in particular by having your mom & sister fill out a legacy form, but I wouldn’t bring it up to chapters other than your legacy unless it’s a sorority not on campus. If you talk about how your mom and sister were both APhi and you want to join a sorority because your family members loved being in APhi, the other chapters will think you just want to be in APhi. If your friend in a chapter you liked told you she “gave you a boost” but you still got dropped after the first round, she was more than likely sparing your feelings. It sucks, but oftentimes just one friend isn’t enough to make a big impact since many actives have at least one PNM friend too. At the end of the day, you can try again, but really evaluate if you want to be in a sorority for the right reasons.